having genetic disorder and being pregnant

ok so I have a connective tissue disorder called Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, I can tear, and strecth my ligaments and dislocate joints very easily. Ive had 5 surgeries since I was 18, I'm now 31. reason being that surgeries started at 18, Drs couldnt figure out what was wrong with me. I've had 3 knee surgeries and 2 shoulder surgeries, I have a torn hip socket which causes my hip to dislocate. my firat pregnancy was fine no big issues, my second my hips started dislocating and now with my 4th ( miscarried back in march) my whole body is just one big ball of pain. I'm high risk due to #1 having miscarriage so close but #2 my cervix can open prematurely, the placenta can seperate from uterus due to this condition. I feel helpess my fiance and I are going to a party tomorrow and we are making potato and pasta salad and I cant help because I'm in so much pain I dont know how I am going to make it through this pregnancy and Im only 10 weeks 5 days