Husband is naked in front of his mom UPDATE

Ok ladies. Since my first post was a poll, I was unable to add edits without revealing my identity (which I need to remain anonymous because my sisters, my sisters in laws, friends and Mom is also on this app). This is not something I have talked to anyone about. It’s bizarre and makes me want to vomit.

We don’t live with my MIL but she lives close to us and is always “popping” by unannounced. She is a nice lady but she is jealous of my husband’s time and I feel like she tries to compete with me?

My husband will be in the shower and she will walk into the bathroom to have a conversation with him. He will walk from our bedroom to the laundry room at the back of the house Stark naked while she is visiting with me in the living room. It’s just weird and off putting. I told him it’s not normal for a married man in his 30’s to “want” his mother to see his penis so often.

The comment she made regarding his penis was this: it was December and she came into our bedroom unannounced (like usual). My husband and I were sitting on our bed having a conversation. She’s holding her iPad and says she wants to buy a case for it but she doesn’t know the size of it. She needs a tape measure she says.

My husband jokingly reaches for her iPad and lewdly holds it up to his crotch and tells her it’s 8 inches, she doesn’t need a tape measure.

Her response to me “How can you measure an 8 inch iPad case with a 5 inch penis?”

No smiling. No joking. Just staring at me dead in the face. My husband rifles through one of our junk drawers and hands her the Tape measure, completely ignoring his mom. I’m like feeling so creeped out. That was like 8 months ago and it still makes me feel disgusted. I try not to be judgmental but their relationship is gross.

(Like I have no idea if she was just guessing or if she has seen my husband with an erection? He does not have a large penis so the size was accurate.)

Once we went to her house and my husband walked though the front door and apparently my mother in law was nude and he yelled at her to go “take her ass in her room and get dressed” before he allowed me to enter her house. He was like really mad. Didn’t touch that one with an 8 foot pole.

My mother in law has been married 6 times but she has been divorced for about 4 years now. Don’t want to jump to the conclusion that she gets some sort of sick satisfaction by seeing her son in a state of undress. But last time she bought him a pair of pants she told him to try them on to see if they fit. He took them and began walking to the bathroom to see if they fit and she will say “why so shy all of a sudden?" And he will drop his pants right there in the living room.

My husband and MIL are Vietnamese so I don't know if its just a difference in culture or just a difference in upbringing but I would never purposefully walk around naked infront of my dad. (I am from South Africa, not that it matters I guess.)

I loved him before we got married and I still love him but I didn’t know they had this type of relationship prior to getting married.

Didn’t think I had to ask if he lets him Mom see his ding dong on the reg. Not really a standard question in my opinion.