My SO and i are expecting our first, we feel so blessed and happy. We just moved in together. Today i was watching videos on his phone before work, when an unsaved number started calling. I picked up and it was a girl asking for MY MAN.. i said “who’s this?” And she kept repeating herself asking for him i again said okay.. who’s this and her and her friends starting laughing in the background and just started talking reckless soo of course i started.. my man walks in and try’s to grab the phone. I stood on the bed and didn’t give it to him. (He’s notorious for not sticking up for me and making me look dumb to the other person) that’s why i didn’t give him the phone. He walks away and goes back to his game clearly hearing me yelling. I go into the game room and ask him questions and long story short we start to argue. She calls back and i tell him to answer expecting him to come at her for disrespecting me.. she starts talking in Spanish and he answers her question.. i grabbed his phone and threw it!!! I was so mad!! Even writing it now is pissing me off!! He NEVER has my back ever!!! I would’ve expected him to say “don’t call my phone if you’re gonna disrespect my girl. That’s not gonna happen!”but nope! He’s calmly answering her question after hearin her talk shit to me and me get all worked up!! I just don’t know what to do. I’ve had this conversation with him already about us being a team and he just doesn’t get it. He’s Spanish and sometimes i just feel like it’s the way his mom raised him. She too just doesn’t have simple common morals. Or understandings. For example. She’s the type to cook a dinner and just feed one son while having company over.. Like i just don’t get it? And clearly he doesn’t either. And since i live with him i always just let it go, it’s easier to be happy then mad but now i just feel like this is becoming too common. I’ll never keep him from his baby bur honestly, i REFUSE TO raise my baby in a home where there’s always fighting and not communicating. And where no ones a team! Just don’t know what else i can do differently when i get back there Because honestly i don’t want to lay in the same bed as him. The fact he allowed me to get THAT worked up and allowed a girl to talk shit to me and about me being pregnant and him not doing anything just makes me so angry!!