Is Oral not a thing??

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Dont get me wrong, I love giving my boyfriend blowjobs (especially because of how much he loves them) but he never returns the favor. He is completely into fingering me but he has gone down on me only one time and it was before we had sex. We are a fairly new couple so I don’t really want to ask, but is this normal??

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It didnt seem like any guys in their twenties did it. Then when I started dating guys over 30, every guy did it. So I dunno lol.

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I think you need to speak up. All guys are different. My boyfriend when I was 19 went funny all the time. My ex of 5 years rarely did it and my husband rarely does it. I don’t care either way because I prefer the d anyways. But if you like oral you should make it clear.

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My husband gave me oral like once a month maybe. We recently have been working on communication and he had no idea I love it. He said it’s one of his favorite things. The last two weeks have been 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻 haha.

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My husband has days where he is all for giving me oral and then he won’t do it for awhile. But maybe your guy doesn’t know if you liked it or were comfortable with it? Maybe say you enjoyed the time he did it back or suggest 69?

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Speak up. Communication is key.

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every man is different.  my bf loves to go down on me but gets distracted with other things easily and tends to forget lol.

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No. Your man should wanna go down on you

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I’m in the same boat, girl!
For my relationship it’s 80% me giving him a blow bob and 20% him going down on me.
I would say I give him 5-10 blow jobs a month, and he maybe goes down on me twice if I’m lucky?
I basically have to announce to him that I just too a shower and shaved and then ask him to.
I really do enjoy taking care of him, but returning the favour more often would be nice!

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i receive oral every time I give a bj but not for long. 4-5 mins max and it kinda sucks but I ig it’s my fault for staying quiet:/ but yes he should reciprocate if you want him to, unless he just rly doesn’t like oral/ it freaks him out

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I probably give my partner slightly more head than i get back (in spite of my bitching lol) but I’m a firm believer in if you don’t get head neither does he 🤷‍♀️

Is Oral not a thing??

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