Help me

Hannah • I'm 20 years old, in university to be a nurse. Just trying to be happy

I need advice, I had been dating this guy for 3 years. He isn't the best with words or showing he loves me which is hard when you are long distance. But we recently broke up and I miss the hell out of him and want to get back together but my mother told me that if I wanted to get back with him then I could pack my shit and get out. I don't know what to do.