Spontaneous move or monotony??

Ladies I need your help. I need advice or insight.

Background information:

I currently live in Wisconsin. I’ve got two jobs that don’t really pay the bills working in HR and teaching preschool. I love my jobs but it’s not cutting it and so far I haven’t landed any interviews this summer which is discouraging for sure.

My abusive ex and I have been fighting hard and finally seems like he’s decided not to take me to court and therefore I won’t be taking him to court either. I finally feel mostly free from him

Been dating a kind man that I just can’t figure out if I’m fully attracted to him or it’s just such a change to have someone genuine and kind.

Actual problem:

My best friend since middle school just broke up with her ex and has an open spot in her apartment. She’s asked me jokingly in the past to move to Seattle but now she’s serious about it. I have a week to decide. There’s so many jobs that are higher paying (but more expensive to live out there) and in the fields I actually want to be in. She’s offered to pay majority of the rent (she’s got a big salary at work) and let me get on my feet. ((I have a healthy savings account, own my car, only pay about $250/month on my loan, not too many bills etc as far as money goes)). Additionally her ex from before the guy who moved out might stick around and pay rent too. I want so bad to leave the abuse of the past two years behind and start over. My mom says I should do something spontaneous while I’m young. I don’t know exactly what to do or how to even move out of state. I’m an anxious mess about everything. I told the guy I’m seeing about it and his reaction is to want to move too. Which scares me. I’m not that committed... I have no idea what to do. Any advice? I want to be spontaneous and try to make a year of starting over but I also want to hide in my little Midwest hole