How do I get my mom to stop doing this.......

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My mother likes to constantly pick at my body type & tell me I need to go to the gym and lose weight. I have really big breasts, I’m a triple D but I’ve always had my big breasts since I was 10 years old. So I would think that would make me appear bigger than what I am. I’ve always been a curvaceous girl. But I cover myself a lot because my mom has always picked at my body type so I never feel confident going out or wearing certain clothes because she puts it into my head that I am fat. When she does that to me it really hurts my feelings. Yesterday she said “I bet a lot of people tell you that you’re fat and you need to go to the gym”. But no one has ever said that to me but her. Comments from her like that make me feel not as confident with myself at all. I’ve never felt comfortable in my skin & I’m 21 years old. I have a lot of self love issues because of her comments.

She’s never allowed me to feel comfortable with myself.