So, right now I have my <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android">Glow app</a> set for “not trying to conceive.” I’m engaged and we are getting married next year. I’m currently 22, he’s 25, and I’m a few months away from graduating. We rent a house right now, but we are trying to buy a house back in his home state as soon as he gets a job offer there. We are financially stable, and will be even more financially stable once I graduate!!

I understand he wants to wait till we are married and that’s FINE. but I don’t know if I can wait several more years like he wants to. I literally think about my future kids every single day, and I feel like I am more than ready to have one. If I bring the subject up, he gets super stressed out. He wants kids too, but he wants to have enough money saved that I can stay at home for a few years...which is NEVER going to happen. He says we should just wait till it does happen, but realistically, that’s not going to happen for probably 10 years. He says theres nothing wrong with having a baby in your 30s, and there’s not, but that’s just not what I want for myself. He doesn’t understand that.

Just looking for advice/a place to vent.