SO’s so called family drama

When you SO’s so called family paints you to be the bad person because you can’t be around babies. I’m selfish, I’m psycho, it’s all about me... but if I don’t want my nose rubbed in it I’ll stay away from your new borns what the hell is so wrong with being true to your feelings? One of his brothers girlfriends has told him his family hates him and his brother pointed out all the bad things I’ve done because of the ‘baby situation’. I haven’t seen these people for a year and a half yet all things is brought to the surface at the weekend. Feeling completely mugged off