so, my husband and I have been married for more than four months, and we have been enjoying spending quality time with each other (read: sexual encounters) the thing is we haven't done the deed, like just have sex. i mean there's oral, foreplay and what not, but just not the sex. it'll be the first time for both of us. thing is I've tried talking to him, letting him know we need to move the relationship forward. But he doesn't seem interested; I've also suggested that he read online about stuff and then we should talk about it. but he is showing no interest. It feels like I've reached a dead end. I'm not sure what should I do, he also seems inattentive towards me while I can get him to come, I like doing that. I need advice on how to get him there, I mean I don't understand if I'm doing anything wrong...so help!!!