Relationships are Testy

so ill just jump to the point.. no back story..

if your S.O. isnt very affectionate with you, doesn't conversate with you, doesnt take you out to do things besides eat, barely listens when you speak, and you've been together for years keep in mind, pushes you away bc youre trying to hug and kiss too much, but he is quick to talk to other females even ones he doesnt know and pour his heart out and go hang out ...

is he really loving you like he claims?

sure he buys you things occasionally but to his liking and tends to the kids needs from time to time but you do everything for him down to dressing and undressing him, you do everything around the house bc he doesnt like to clean, go to school full time, and work full time, and take care of the kids...

is there not a moment thats okay to snap bc words are unheard?