Scorpio Men

Lately I’ve been speaking to a Scorpio man whose taken an interest it me, but it seems he compares me to alot of his exes. I’m a Taurus, I dont really let this bother me because none of his relationships ended well anyways. Any tips on how to make him focus on me more though? Im talking borderline obsessive here, I want him in the palm of my hand. (not trying to get played lol)