My Boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex since our “Pregnancy Scare”

I know this is super long I’m very sorry but plz read.

So last month a condom broke without us noticing, my boyfriend finished inside me then got super freaked out that I could be pregnant. I put pregnancy scare in quotations because there was almost 0 chance that I was pregnant because I’m on birth control AND we got the morning after pill. I got my period yesterday.

However my boy was shook. Ever since then he doesn’t want to have sex at all. We’ll do other stuff but he’ll refuse oral or anything past that.

I understand that he got a little freaked after the condom broke but the level of freaked is very confusing to me. We went from having sex multiple times a week to maybe making out once a week. We’re only 18 (don’t come for me, i know it’s a teenage relationship but teens have problems too) but have been having sex for over a year. When we talked about it he said that in the year we’ve been having sex, he’s never EVER thought of the possibility that I could get pregnant or of any of the consequences that come with being sexually active.

I have no idea how to deal with this situation but it’s kinda of a sticky circumstance. He’s on vacation with his family for 2 weeks (hopefully enough time for him to cool off) but after that we have 4 weeks together and then I move away for four months. I would kind of like to have sex a lot of times before that but I honestly don’t know if that’s realistic anymore. I really don’t know how to handle this and any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you for sticking around to read this essay. I really needed to get this off of my chest.💕