IN LAWS

does anyone else , just hate their in laws . like when you look at them you just feel the anger in you . my inlaws always put me & my so down just because we are young with two kids . My man is 21 & im 19 . not so young but still able to take care of what we have . they're always telling him that we are never going to achieve anything bc of our decisions we've made . also when we leave our daughter with them its like she either comes back so upset or she calls me and leaves so many voicemails with my daughter yelling and crying out her lungs mind you shes 1 . me and him have agreed not to let them take our daughter & son when he is born . are we wrong ?