So today marks a year that my husband and I decided to start trying to have a baby. At the beginning we wanted for it to just happen so we stopped using protection and just had sex all the time. A couple months passed and I started to get frustrated by the fact that nothing was happening. I started keeping track of my ovulation days, we were on a no sex till those three days type of schedule. Well that didn’t work so I kicked it into over gear I started watching what I ate, how much sleep I got, how much exercise I got in the day. Having a baby has really taken over my life. I didn’t realize it up until recently when we decided to go see my sister in laws doctor who helped her get pregnant. My husband and I got checked when we started trying and she said everything was fine we never saw someone else we didn’t think we should’ve. We started talking about it and how hard things had gotten since the beginning of our journey and we realized how much stress and heartbreak it has been causing us. So he left me with a decision keep trying or go back on birth control for a year. I’ve been going back and fourth with my decision. I don’t know what is better to keep trying or to stop trying knowing that we could have gone with some more extreme measures. Any advice?