Never had an orgasm?

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So I'm sixteen. My boyfriend and I lost our virginities to each other in April. We have sex A LOT. It's absolutely amazing. I LOVE sex Lmfao. He's honestly amazing. I'm just confused? I don't think I've ever had an orgasm. It's not like he's not good at sex bc trust me...he is. He can't get me to shut up xD I also can't climax by myself. Like most girls are saying that you have to know yourself first...but masturbating just doesn't do anything for me. Idk. Can anyone explain this to me?

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A lot of women don't orgasm until they're in their mid 20's. It's fairly common, although I don't know why.

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Ohhhkaayyy...

Well, if you don't think you have had an orgasm then you probably havent. If you have then you wouldn't be asking. Not trying to be rude just giving a little insight. Please use protection at such a young age. I hope things go well for you.

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Well, from what I've heard (I've never had one vaginally) is that you know your close to orgasm when you begin to feel like you have to pee. I've also heard it entails a lot more then just sex & requires a lot of foreplay & trying different positions where your gspot will get more attention. It is possible to orgasm & has nothing to do with you being 16. I'm only able to orgasm through clitoral stimulation & have been doing that before I ever even had sex for the 1st time while I was in my teens. I'm still working on the vaginal orgasm, but there are rumors that there's only a small percentage of women who actually orgasm vaginally. Good luck!

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If you feel like you're about to per during sex..it's not pee. It means you're about to cum. So if you get that feeling just relax and let whatever happens...happen.

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basically u need to target your clit during masterbation or sex, stimulate it by rubbing in circular mortion or side to side which ever u prefer. I read that for a stronger climax stimulate for at least for a min of10 mins that way your body is aroused enough and sensitive. Speeding up the pace will guarantee a climax once your body is sensitive enough, try shifting your hips upward while tighting your butt muscles.  you'll know it when it comes ! Practice makes perfect and its fun !

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Don't worry about it so much. I've been having sex since I was 15 and didn't have my first orgasm from sex until 24.

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It's completely normal to not experience an orgasm during vaginal stimulation. Try touching yourself while you're alone to find out what your body likes and responds to. Then, communicate that to your boyfriend. You may need to stimulate your clitoris while having sex, to achieve orgasm. Visual and mental stimulation can help as well, such as watching porn or reading erotica.

Most importantly, be comfortable... With yourself, and your partner. Good luck!!

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When you get to the point where you feel like you are gonna pee, don't stop, keep going.  That is going to be your climax. You're still new to it it will take a while to figure it all out.

Never had an orgasm?

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