What do you think about baby showers?

Nahhhhhhh • Baby girl September 👶 Proud 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 PCOS

People tell me it's a celebration of my first born

on the other hand, family members have told me (before they found out I was pregnant) that it's an excuse for people to get free stuff when they'll get present anyway because your loved ones buy things out of excitement anyway!

I'm worried my family might start talking behind my back if I had one.

what do you think?