Is this "normal"?

🌸Karaline🐝 • Breathe deeply, tomorrow isn`t yesterday
So with my first I didn't have any sex during my pregnancy because the sperm donor walked out less than a month after the bfp. This time my husband and I have sex frequently and sometimes when he really gets going he slips out and will just thrust up near my clitoris. Every time he does this he tears me down there like...a lot. Then when I wipe it opens it up again and bleeds a lot.
Does this happen with any of you? It didn't happen as much before I was pregnant but now I have a tear that's like a week old...