Concerned about my bfs fb??

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Am I overreacting? My boyfriend is still friends with his ex and still has their old posts up and has never deleted them and it makes me upset that it still on there??

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You need to talk to him and let him know you have a problem with it . But from my point of view I don’t think he is over his ex .

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I'm best friends with one of my exes. wouldn't ever take him back but we're good friends. he's engaged and has a baby with her and is madly in love with her. I'm with someone else who I'm madly in love with. but i still talk to my ex almost every day and we hang out sometimes. we're just friends. also the fb, the guy I'm with has old pics with his ex fiance on his fb. wanna know why? Because it was so goddamn long ago that it's more effort to go back and delete them all. It's ridiculous to expect that. i still have stuff posted with my exes. but it was so goddamn long ago that it takes effort and time to delete. i don't care that much to waste time on them just deleting pics. fuck that.

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girl I would snap, my ex was the same and was talking to her the whole time

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My ex had me as his cover photo on fb for months after we broke up even though he was sorta dating another girl. I know for sure he’s totally over me and there’s no chance we’ll ever get back together,  but for whatever reason he left our pics up and didn’t change his relationship status for a long time. I try not to read into stuff like that, unless he’s cheated or left you for someone else and is still close with that someone else. I didn’t get rid of my ex’s stuff for awhile either, I still didn’t want to let go even after I stopped loving him. Your bf once cared about her deeply, and it’s hard to let that go, the memory of being happy. He has it with you, now, but I wouldn’t worry too much about it. Being par

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does he talk to his ex a bunch? via Facebook or text or phone? because if he doesn’t I wouldn’t worry about it.
I’m still friends with my ex on Facebook (and Instagram etc etc... & still have his number in my cell) and we still talk occasionally. That doesn’t mean anything though. It just means our breakup wasn’t one that was rough, and we parted as friends. I didn’t delete any of our pictures together on Facebook or Instagram or anything either. Just because you break up doesn’t mean the memories you shared with that person suddenly become bad memories. 
I dislike how everyone (mostly girls) goes through everything and deletes every single thing to do with an ex. Yeah, you broke up, it sucks, but are you really telling me that the time and memories you shared with that person suddenly repulse you so much that you have to delete them, even though they were good happy memories.

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Man my ex has everything up on his facebook and it makes me so uncomfortable because one anytime he tells new girls some sob story about how I’m the one that got away they can easily stalk me and it makes me sick to my stomach because I left his ass because he raped me and was abusive. 🙄 so he uses me as an excuse to why all the girls leave him in the end. They all end up stalking me and I’m so over it

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I think it depends. I mean if they ended on a good note and are still somewhat friendly I would say being friends on fb is fine. And I think it depends with the posts too..if it’s obviously a girlfriend post, he should take it down since they aren’t together anymore and he has a new SO. If it was a casual group thing then..nah.

Concerned about my bfs fb??

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