I know this post will end up with a lot of bashing, but I appreciate those of you that give me an answer without being rude about it because I know it’s possible.

Why does this “offend” you?

I have had so much hate given to me over my body because I am indeed bigger. I am obese. Can you tell me why it has anything to do with you or anyone really that people think they need to open their mouth and say rude thing’s to or about me or anyone that is bigger? Or smaller for that matter too! Why is it anyone’s place to even think that someone is any lesser than them just because someone else’s body doesn’t meet their “standards” for beauty. Why is it that just because me or anyone else doesn’t fit your “standards” that we are any less beautiful than anyone? Every person on the planet has flaws. Why is anyone automatically less pretty for being “too big” or “too small”? It has no affect on you or anyone else. It’s no one else’s life or health or body. Why can’t we look at others and find the beauty instead of the “ugly” (there is no such thing as ugly by the way). I am just really sick of the shaming or belittling. I try to look for the good and beauty in every person I meet. Even if I don’t get along with someone I still look for and see the beauty and good in them. I just really wish society could change. I’d really appreciate and actual educated answer on why people think they have any right to think or say negative thing’s about another human being though when no one is perfect and you have your flaws too.

**😂😂 the clutter on my couch is just the laundry I was folding.