Hello everyone so this last weekend I took my boyfriend out of town to a concert and then also to surprise him with we are pregnant. I had a cute box filled with little baby shoes a shirt that said the best dad and the test. When he opened it his reaction was just oh. I went to the bathroom and when I came out he gave me a hug and we went to the concert and he was super sweet joking about me not being able to eat pizza for my pregnancy and shielding me from people smoking and rubbing my belly. On the 5 hour drive back home the same thing making cute little jokes. When he got to his house he text me we need to talk and that night we did and he asked me to get an abortion and said he wants kids but not right now. We have talked about this and he sends me links for cute baby stuff and then does this. I’m so hurt and heartbroken and said if I keep it I will be a single mom to 2 kids. I know I can do this on my own but the other thing that really hurt is I had planned to tell my mom in a cute way also but when I told her what he wants me to do all she said was well I hope he is going to pay for it. Like Wtf who says that . I just am so lost and need your ladies support . Why are men such asses