He doesn’t like how vaginas taste?

So my boyfriend and I are having an issue it maybe more so me. He will ask me to go down on him and sometimes I do, he takes forever to come. And it’s not me he is like that during sex too. I don’t know if he holds off or what anyway...we were talking about how he never goes down on me. He said he doesn’t like the way vaginas taste, I wash down there everyday with summers eve, make sure I use those summers eve wipes during that time of the month. I’m a very clean person, he said all I have to do is ask, but sometimes I don’t want to ask. He’s made it very clear that it’s a dislike of his and he doesn’t enjoy it. It kind of hurts my feelings a little bit. I don’t know what to do or how to handle it. He said that I should ask since he ask for anal all the time and he knows I hate it. He said he won’t go down on me with his own free will. Should I just suck it up and ask? Or just buy a toy and get the pleasure that way? What do I do? How would you handle it. Please help me out!