too fat for a boyfriend?

Question

i’ve been insecure since last year i guess, i didn’t really care what i looked like before then, i am 14 and weigh 200 pounds. i have a line in the middle of my stomach witch i thought was the start of abs but why do i have it if i have this much weight on my stomach?  i am more wide then anything, i have about 6 weeks before i go back to school, is there anyway i can slim down before going back?
but the real question is.. am i too fat for a boyfriend? i know i’m only 14 and everything but i feel like nobody is going to like me because i’m chubby. all my friends are very skinny and im the fat one..

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First of all there is no such thing as being to fat for a boyfriend if a boy doesn’t love you how you look at your best or your worst he never will, and all he should be worried about is what’s on the inside anyways. When I was 14 I was fat an chunky bigger then everyone but eventually it will slim down. It’s mostly baby fat some people have more than others but if you wanna try to lose weight try eating a little more healthier. Grilled chicken, brown rice and steamed broccoli is my go to. Also maybe go for walks or runs throughout the day. Start slow but eventually it will go away. I’m 18 and just graduated high school and my bodies just starting to slim down. But remember your beautiful on the inside and what’s on the inside is what matters the most baby girl. Keep your head up ❤️

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My advice would be if you want to lose weight don’t do it to fit in or get a boyfriend. Do it to make you feel good and comfortable in your own skin because in the end it’s your life and your body. If a boy really likes he’ll like no matter what you look like or how much you weigh and if some boys say otherwise. There’s plenty of worthier fish in the sea to like you for you. 
I would try tracking calories and NEVER restrict your food intake. Eat healthy choices more veggies and fruits and make sure to do everything in moderation. 80% of weight loss comes from a good diet. Exercises is important
to. Even simple things like light walks for 30 minuets is good enough or if you want high intensity workouts YouTube has a bunch of workout videos to choose. 
I hope this helps but I won’t to stress to work out for you and your happiness. This is your body and you’re beautiful before and after no matter what.

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You are beautiful, your perfect, and any boy would be lucky to have you

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You are never too fat for anything! If a boy says that you are “too fat” then he isn’t worth your time anyway!

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You’re just 14? Who cares if you don’t have a boyfriend! Just because your friends are getting their first boyfriends and thats the hot topic doesn’t mean you need to have one.

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You are not too fast for a boyfriend. Change your diet if you want!

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You're not fat, but you can drink only water & try going on a mile long walk everyday. But just know you should never lose weight for anyone, do it because want to feel good about yourself.

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Do not lose weight for the approval of others. It’s not about losing as much weight as possible as fast as possible. I had an eating disorder for years that completely consumed my life and well being. Finding joy in making healthier recipes and reaching fitness goals such as lifting more are what keeps you mentally and physically healthier in the long run. You should do things to make yourself feel confident especially now. If you crave something sweet have a bit. Don’t restrict yourself. Eating is something you should look forward too! Beauty is in all shapes and sizes and you have to love yourself first. I’m 19 now and I wish at 14 I wasn’t so boy crazy because that’s the time to run around with your friends. There’s plenty of time to find love. Just enjoy life now😊

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