Longest rough patch..

My husband and I have been going through a bit of a rough patch. Long story short, I almost bled out and died at 34 weeks pregnant. It was scary and hard and so emotionally draining. I had a bit of ptsd and some postpartum depression. Our baby is now one, and things have just been so tense. I have gone to therapy to work my issues out but I think the birth changed him. Our communication isn’t great at the moment, he’s always defensive, mostly angry, not very affectionate and it’s not like him.. my therapist says that men can get depressed and it shows in anger and being dissociative. I guess I’m wondering how long have rough patches lasted for other ladies here? It’s not like it’s absolutely horrible, but we haven’t been ourselves and I miss him 😔