Not getting wet enough

Okk help! I just got married and my husband and I abstained from having sex for over a year to make the wedding night more special... well it seems like I can’t get wet enough. Like when we first start it seems like I’m good to go but then 20 minutes in I start to feel myself drying out. We started using lube but I feel like I’m too young (24) to have to be dependent on it. And then last night, I bled a little after sex. Has anyone experienced this? TIA!