Communication

Lexi • 🖤

Hi there. Three months ago I started dating this guy and I honestly think I’m in love. I could actually see a future with him. We want the same things in life, we’re both laid back people, and very much alike but also different enough so it doesn’t get boring. However things aren’t perfect. He lives with his one friend and I barely see him. He’ll go out with his friends after already making plans with me and ignore my messages the entire time and by the time he’s free he’s too tired to do anything this has been happening for basically the entire time we’ve been together and I have talked to him about it. We’ve had fights over communicating more and making time for me, for us to hang out as a couple. All he does is make excuses for his behavior. I don’t hang out with him and his friends because they do things like smoke pot and drink and skateboard.. well that’s all they do but I’m not into that stuff. I’ll just be bored the whole time and possibly annoy him. But it would be some type of compromise. Idk and this weekend we made plans for him to sleep over before he has to work tomorrow and he barely texted me all weekend (we don’t talk on the phone). I finally got a response today but it was two messages and then nothing. Ive been so mad all day and these problems have been going on for so long, like since we first met, and I’m at my wits end. Idk if I should break up or take some kind of break or try to work through it. I mean I want to work through it but how am I supposed to when he doesn’t talk to me? Idk I need advice this is my second relationship and idk what I’m doing or if I’m overreacting and I need an unbiased opinion. Am I crazy? And what solutions or comprises can we make to fix this cause I don’t see us lasting much longer if we can’t. Btw idk if this helps but I’m 18 and he’s 19 turning 20 in three months.