Lost our baby😭

Melanie

Last Tuesday we had our first ultrasound. We were 8 weeks and 5 days. Our baby was measuring exact to date but they didn’t see a heartbeat on our vaginal ultrasound. My whole life came crashing down. I asked to give it a week and to go back and get a second opinion a week later. Today, I went in and again, we saw our baby and there was no heartbeat and the growth stopped at 8 weeks and 5 days. Definitely confirmed a missed miscarriage. I opted for the D&C; because I know I could not go through waiting for it to happen naturally and see and feel everything coming out. My D&C; is scheduled for tomorrow morning. I am so heart broken and nervous for the surgery and to say a final goodbye to my first pregnancy.

I really hope I am able to heal from this heartbreak and able to start trying soon again for our rainbow.

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Ta

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I’m so sorry. Praying for comfort for you and your SO 💕

Sh

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I am sorry, praying for you!!

Ma

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I’m so sorry to hear what you are going threw , I can totally relate to this. Same thing happened to me back in March, when I was pregnant for the first time. When I went to do a ultrasound there was no heartbeat. It was heartbreaking and worse day of my life. I ended up having d&c.; I bleed for a month after that. luckily I got pregnant right after that, I’m almost 13 weeks today and everything is going well so far. I hope you all the best and baby dust

Ch

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I’m so sorry❤️.

Je

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I'm so sorry! I went through this last year following a regular miscarriage a few months before. It is really hard, but you will get through it. Afterward I got a giant sub for lunch because it was something I couldn't eat while pregnant. I recommend you do the same thing and take some time enjoying the things you like until you are ready to try again ❤

Al

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I am so sorry. I just miscarried at 8 weeks. I feel your pain. It has been the most heart breaking experience ever. I’m praying for your strength and comfort ❤️

Na

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I'm so sorry! Wish you to be very-very strong and brave with God's help! My friend, unfortunately, got thru this too, but now she has a healthy and happy son! Pray for you😟

Ca

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I’m so sorry for your loss, praying for you ❤️

J

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So sorry for your loss. ❤️ I miscarried at 6 weeks and currently 10 weeks with a new baby. You’ll never forget your first but you will have your rainbow baby. ❤️