soooo...

we just found out last week we are expecting, and I have had a hernia since before we found out about baby... I know I should have went to see doctor sooner but we are in a different province visiting my in laws the past couple months and was wanting to wait till we went back home... plus I didnt think nothing of it, thinking it would go away on its own but its hurting my tummy kinda now.... wondering if anyone has experienced one and what happens... I read up on it and said the best way to get rid of it is to have surgery... ugh

idk what to think atm... please no bashing..