advice on mom in law *long-ish*

Ricki

ok so I'm 24 my bf is 21 I have 2 kids with a previous relationship(5,2) well I'm having g my second daughter on Friday by C-section and his mom wants me, him and the baby to stay at her house.... (without my other two kids) because my house is being renovated my mom dad kids stay at my dad's hotel, well I don't know if it's best for us to stay at her house considering I won't be allowed to walk steps for a week and I can't drive for a week as well. so I wanted to stay at the hotel for that week cause I'll have my mom, sister, kids and my dad to help me, and his mom is worried she won't be able to see the baby. I'm just curious to know if I'm in the wrong for wanting to stay at the hotel for the first week instead of with his mother please help me!