Do you think you're a better parent than your SO?

I feel like my husband doesnt give a shit. He works while im a sahm and constantly comes home tired and doesn't want to do shit. He spends maybe an hour with our son and if bub doesn't go to sleep by 8 he gets pissed and loses his temper. He wants to come home and be left alone..on the weekends he stays in the bedroom and only comes out if i ask him to..he is a dick the whole time and i eventually end up arguing with him until he retreats back in the room anyway. Anyone else deal with things like this? Adding anon because lets face it..who wants to reveal their hubby is a pos