I am a Virgo, my now Ex is an Aquarius. We had a huge fight the night of his grandfathers funeral. He felt like I was being distant at the memorial. When in fact I was 10 weeks pregnant, and had nothing to eat, it was 96 degrees out, and we stayed for 7hrs. I found out I was pregnant the day after his grandfather died...so I didn’t find a good time to tell him.

The moring of the memorial he said we didn’t have time for breakfast. When I got out the shower I found him eating. I’m not going to lie it put me in a bad head space. He also rushed me to get ready, but I kept it together and was physically there for him.

During the memorial he was pretty nasty to me, saying I need to stay by his side, I was making him look bad, etc. I kept telling him this is not the right time. When we got back in the car for the 2hr drive home. He immediately broke up with me. I became emotionally hysterical and asked for him to pull over. At the rest stop I ordered an Uber, and went for my belongings. He refused to let me get them. I also asked for him to send me my Beyoncé ticket. He made an excuse and said he couldn’t send them. so I refused to get out of the car. He called the cops, they arrested me for causing a scene.

He bailed me out and left me at the station in the middle of the night over an hr away from home. Before he pulled off I told him I was pregnant. He looks at the cops and said “this is the first time I’m hearing this” then pulled off. He immediately blocked me from everything.

This was 4 weeks ago and I haven’t heard much of anything from him. I decided to terminate my pregnancy a week after our fight. Two weeks ago he told me he was still conflicted about everything that happened and he needs to clear his thoughts. He went away to clear his head and he came back and said nothing. It’s very hard for me to be patient and I fight for my love so I sent emails letting him know I care, I’m hurt, we should see a counselor, etc.

The police had to escort me to get my things and my 1,100 bracelet given to me by my grandmother is missing. I know he lost it but he’s not responding to me. At first he thanked me for being patient, while he gets his head together, this past weekend he told me to never contact him in anyway again, and to leave him alone. This was after I came to his house to look for my bracelet. He didn’t say this in person he emailed it to me after he called the cops AGAIN! They said I couldn’t come in and would have to take him to court. I never want to put someone I love through something like that. He’s not even trying to meet me half way or even respond to me so I feel like my hands are tied.

I saw him Saturday and he looks like shit! Like he hasn’t cut his hair or shaved since our fight. I have never seen him look so rough. Should I keep being patient and wait it out for a few months? Or should I just take him to court an never look back?

His behavior makes no sense to me...like this man said he wanted a family with me. Told me everyday he loved me. He had no opinion about me keeping the child. I honestly feel like he became more cold after I terminated it. When we fought in the past he would text me everyday till I saw him again. I just don’t understand, I feel like he treated me like shit, how dare he push ME away.

Thoughts? Opinions? Advice? Anything....I’ve been crying everyday since and now I have to take sleeping pills because I can’t sleep, I’m forgetting to eat for days. I’ve never felt anything like this, and I don’t know what to do.

Ppl say this is common Aquarius behavior, but how much time does he need? Does he really never want to see me again? Does he not have anything to say about what happened?