What the heck

My husband says he doesn’t love me but stays cause I’m obligating him (quote we have 2 kids and 1 in the way ) & he says we could just split up and get a divorce later doesn’t have to be right away wtf does that even mean he also says to stop trying and just let things fall into place if they’re gonna happen and see 🙅🏼‍♀️😣🤦🏼‍♀️