TTC #3 - BFP

So after my 2nd I thought we would be done; except, I never got that “I’m done” feeling. In fact, I sold 1 lot of baby clothes and then stopped and stored all items in or basement. I got cold feet. Last Sept, when my littlest was 1 I started asking my husband if he’s consider a 3rd. BIG NO. I kept asking, I begged, lotsa tears - we’ll, he caved and we tried - we got pregnant - at 6 weeks I lost baby. Then we spiraled into a move, renovation, grad school and he didn’t want to talk about it. I started pushing again this summer and he said no. Wasn’t all about it, was happy with 2 ... didn’t want the financial worry - but he ended up knowing it meant a lot to me and we tried again in July - and now, I am pregnant ... again. But, he’s not happy. He told me now I need a second job, blah blah blah ... and is basically saying he’s too stressed and this changed him into something he doesn’t want to be. I guess I’m just wondering ... how many people disagree with their spouse on number of children? Someone loses in this debate and it’s a hard loss either way. The whole past year killed me and had me so upset, but now he’s upset. I’m just ... lost.