Being called fat while pregnant not OK

Jo

So I am 5”9 and weighed 145lbs. I’m currently 5.5 months pregnant. My ankles r swollen. My mother told me that I eat to much and I’m not swollen I’m fat and get used to it. Well. In the morning my ankles r skinny again. And I eat 3 meals a day and 1-2 snacks. Some days I don’t eat snacks it depends. This is my 3rd child. The doctors aren’t worried about my weight gain. They say I’m right on track. I’ve gained 15lbs. Anyone else have to deal with this? I was in tears all night and didn’t even want to eat.