So my husband and I have been married for 4 yrs and have been intimate with each other for 5. We have been ttc for 19 months,but my problem is that you have to actually baby dance to get pregnant,but it has gotten soooooooo BORING!!! We literally only bd once last month,and I don't know if maybe I have low libido as well,or if it really is just that boring that I just don't want to do it. With that being said,do you think it's ok to spice it up by bringing in some toys to help make it feel more enjoyable and fun if we are both on board with it??? Really need some help,because I have been praying that I would have more desire to be with my husband, but it doesn't seem to be getting any better and we have barely had sex a total of 5 times in the past 3 months. I know it's killing him,but I just can't bring myself to want to. Also,around ovulation when I do want to be the most is when it also hurts the most,no amount of lube or different positions stop the pain...