Confused-don't ignore please!

So I'm 13 and I really like a guy who's 16. He really really likes me as well,I'm so inlove with him /: I know for sure he's not a player and he doesn't only want me for sex. I've got nothing to complain about,but we're both aware of our feelings for eachother. he wants to rush into it and be with me NOW. I want to know him for longer and he says that it's stressing him out and stuff,but I'm not comfortable with going out with him right now. I need to know him better first. I don't know if it's gonna be to late when I know what I want..Alot of shit can come with a relationship with him as well /: If it gets around,which he's promised it won't,I'd get alot of shit from alot of people. He says he really wants me for a long relationship and that he won't "fuck and Chuck". I don't know what to do 😕😕