Hoop with captive

So I have an earring stuck in my ear. My husband put it in fine. Didn’t hurt. None of that jazz. It’s a hoop with a captive. It’s like one size too small for my cartilage. Well I can’t get it out. It’s like just small enough that it won’t come out of my hole and move! No idea what to do. The tattoo shop that I go to for things— their piercer is literally never around. And if she is, she’s busy. And doesn’t help. So please if you have an idea that would be great because it’s annoying and i want it out to change it. Lol.