Am I being sensitive??

Before I get into my reason for this post, allow me to give you a little background on myself. Not throwing myself a pity party or looking for anyone to look like “poor little ole me.”

I am married to my wonderful husband who is in the military & he’d been away for 3 wks (he’ll be back Fri & I am sooo freaking happy). I was staying w my parents for a little extra help although I got none but that’s ok :) I realize it’s my child & my job. it’s just no one ever came to me & said, “Do you need anything from the store? Time to yourself? Help w ur son?” I was getting up taking care of my son all day & then taking him to work w me just to get up & do it all over again. I’m saying all that to say, I have been very strong in the midst of having to basically act as a single parent while my husband was away. imagine the toll it took on my mental & physical health. Which btw at one point I got so sad & low that I was having suicidal thoughts. Of course I kept thigs to myself that’s just how I operate even tho it’s not the best. I’m also 18 wks pregnant , suffer from depression + anxiety from time to time & I have scoliosis (spine curvature that causes much pain in my back).

Thankfully my husband won’t have to do this 3 wks again, but any way my son is 2 so he likes to pull out many toys at once. My dad came in & goes “I’m gonna have your mom take the toys up stairs. Lucas got my living room looking crazy” Thing is, i understand they want their living room always picked up & neat but we’ll be out of their hair on Friday. They’re grandparents. When I was a child I didn’t pull out toys? I mean I pick up 50x a day after my son & of course myself. I even vacuum, offer to clean the tub (which is hard w scoliosis). Once again, no one offering to make things easier for me in any way. First off it’s hot as heck upstairs bc heat rises & the fan just blows heat out, & 2 my son doesn’t want to be upstairs right now. I make sure to take him up there when they want to have family time in the living room so it can be clean. Otherwise they stay in their room (my parents) & so Lucas & me will come downstairs where it’s cooler & I’m right next to the kitchen as opposed to coming down the steps 80x a day. We’ll be moving into our new place in a few days. But then my dad wonders why I hardly come around. Bc... your grandson is over & you’re complaining about a few toys being left around. Maybe I’m exaggerating or my pregnancy hormones are all out of balance, but when my nephew came over I didn’t mind them making a mess bc I knew they were kids. Now leaving food & drink around is a whole diff thing. Not to mention my 11 yr old sister leaves her room insanely junky, will leave her plates & cups around. at least I am picking up after my child & not expecting my parents do that . I pick the toys up if they’re just sitting there & I explain to my son to play w a few at a time but of course he’s two so sometimes he pulls them all out. Which there aren’t many. Ig my dad just wants his front rm looking a certain way & I totally get that but we’re just guests, we’ll be out of here in no time. Idk what do you guys think?