PCM is crazy or I’m crazy?

So I had a miscarriage in April. I’m now pregnant again. My husband is in the military, we got stationed here 2 months ago, so I don’t have a relationship with an ob/gyn yet. I do have an appointment with an ob/gyns office on the 17th of August however I asked my primary care manager to draw my blood to see why my progesterone levels were and to make sure my hcg levels were doubling like they are supposed to. She told me that she will not order inappropriate tests just because I ask and that I need to have experienced at least 3 miscarriages before they give that kind of treatment?? She also suggested that if I feel the need to (like I’m feeling stressed) then I can go ahead and have something to drink (alcohol) just as long as I sip it because if I’m going to miscarry then it’s going to happen and I shouldn’t worry about it but she won’t do a simple blood test for me and is acting like I’m drug seeking?? What do I do???