Am i wrong?

So i’ve been best friends with this girl since 8th grade (age 13/14) and we are now 22. She just had her wedding in June. So originally, in October 2017, me and her other bridesmaids were told that i would be the maid of honor. I was ecstatic about it because that’s my best friend! Well, as it got closer to the wedding, around Jan/Feb she decided she would have a maid of honor (me) and a matron of honor (married friend). Okay, that’s different but it was fine. Well come wedding day, Matron stood closest to Bride and held bouquet. Then at the reception, she was introduced as “Matron of Honor” and i was introduced as “Bridesmaid”. She made the Matron of Honor toast. She ran the Dollar Dance. She did every single Maid of Honor duty. So i was hurt because it was supposed to be me. We could have split the duties but none of that was discussed or suggested. I get it, it’s Best Friend’s wedding and I shouldn’t make it about me, but i can’t help but have my feelings hurt over this.

The day before the wedding, after the rehearsal, someone had lied and told Bride that i made a comment about the Ring Bearer’s (less than a year old) mother not being able to control him. Which I definitely had not, i know babies get fussy and i’m not the type to bash mothers for it, because it happens. She texted me that night to tell me and it had seemed that she believed whoever told her and she would not tell me who said it. So i was hurt then too and got less excited for the wedding because of it. I do not like drama so i just pushed through the wedding and havent really spoke much Bride since. I don’t know i’m still hurt about the whole thing 2 months later. I don’t know what to do , I don’t want to tell her because I don’t want to make her wedding day about me and it has already happened so nothing can be done about it, but at the same time, it is still eating me up inside.