When should I pack our hospital bags? This is my 2nd pregnancy but my first was 12 years ago so I don’t remember when I started getting ready. Our baby shower is at the end of the month...do I wait until after that?

Should we have our nursery set up already? We had to repaint the crib & change table but we also have to paint our bedroom which is going to be the babies room too.

I feel like I’m just not as motivated to get these things done....what’s wrong with me??