Dry Spells

Alright so

I’m beginning to think something is wrong with me. I used to get super wet whenever I’d have sex but lately I’ve been dry as hell. My partner has to use lube (and that’s fine with me because it’s like a flavor one and sometimes he’ll go down for a little and kiss me 😏😏) but anyway

Even with the lube the intercourse is kinda painful, like a 4-5, but then it’s over after a few strokes. Could this be because I’m not wet enough?

How do I get wetter or is that like a biological thing?

I’m tryna be Niagra Falls not Sahara Desert