My partner and I been together for 15 months and cohabitating for a year. We were pregnant with our son but unfortunately lost him.

He is a nurse and been working at the new hospital for 3 months or so and one of his female coworker is very interested in him and been flirting with him via text and I bet at work too. She asked him if he is seeing someone and his reply was “kind of” “complicated”. They had a beer at her house around midnight last week when I was out of town. She has since visited his house and left him a couple beers thinking he lives there

I found out because I was on his iPad watching movie when the lady texted him (he knows I use his iPad and okay with it)

I texted her back saying he’s at work but then I saw their texts. I apologized to him that I read his texts. He also has full access to my phone

I was beyond mad and sad when I read their texts. Never in a thousand years will I consider him the cheating type. I asked him and he apologized. I should let it go right.

Am I overreacting for being upset he said we are kind of together? He is the one that told me he doesn’t like causal dating, either all in or not........

He said nothing happened other than a beer and I kind of believe him....... should I?

I’m not going to confront his coworker and just going to let him deal with it as an adult.

Good idea right .......

Thank you for your input. My first time dealing with this