Belly Before Baby

Erin • Married to my best friend 🧔🏻💕👩🏻 Baby boy born March 2019 via C section 👶🏻

I’m feeling insecure because I had a bit of a belly before I was even pregnant. I had always been slender but I’ve gained quite a bit of weight from my antidepressant (which has helped me SO MUCH otherwise). I thought I might have food intolerances etc because in addition to my little “bike tire” of fat around my middle, after dinner the bloat would make me look 3 months pregnant. I am so accustomed to sucking in, hiding it with clothes. I’m worried if I just let it be at 3 months I will look much further along. No cute tiny bump for me since I’m already starting with one : / When do you just let it out and let it be?! So grateful for this pregnancy and I know it shouldn’t matter but this insecurity keeps popping up that I won’t have a “real” bump, just an overweight belly. Anyone else been through this? Thank you in advance 💕