im so confused

Winter

so we had a ultrasound at my first appominet with my 3rd baby; the doctor did not do a UA (though we found out later they some how tested my urine yet i never once peed in a cup so im pretty sure when i told them someone else left there sample in the bathroom they ran it as mine) they told me the ultrasound has the baby at 9 weeks but yet wouldnt get me a due date. this is really strange to me cus with both my older two i left after my first ultrasound knowing my due date. the doctor was running behind schedule by about a hour by the time he saw us and he was just supposed to confirm pregnancy (i was ment to switch to a female after) but they said i had to do my patsperm and so he had to do that as well (including a breast exam where he just started touching without telling me what he was doing) all and all i was very uncomfortable during the visits and when we left he said he would see us at 12 weeks for another ultrasound and genetic testing (without asking if we even wanted the genetic testing done he had already put in for it) and to also tell us our due date. he also did our paperwork weird (put it down at risk for abortion when never once was that mentioned) the nurse said that it was so my insurance covers the next ultrasound and not to worry but now im scared to take any meds hes prescribed without doing major research. would you switch doctors?? the reason we didnt switch yet was the female doctors are rarely at the location i would prefer to go to but im starting to wonder if maybe even a different male doctor would be better.... am i just parnoid or would u feep th2 same?