am i ready?

Question

how do you know when you are ready for a divorce?  How do you feel towards him/her?

Answer

I knew it was time when someone asked me how I would feel if the tables were turned and he asked me for a divorce? And my answer was "sad to close that chapter in my life, but mostly relieved."

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I'm 33 weeks pregnant and left my abusive husband about 5 weeks ago.  I had no job because he made me quit.  I had no money because he controlled everything.  No place to live and just felt helpless. I had stopped talking to my family so I thought even they were out. I was wrong because my sister showed up at the police station to get me. She let move in with her and her family,  helped me with my car and loan payments and just let me stay without judgment.  I started a new job on Monday so things are looking up.  I don't regret leaving and as the days move on I get stronger.  I took my ring off the day I left and have not even thought about putting it back on. After the baby is born it will be time to file for divorce. You will know when it's time.

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My soon to be ex husband just took off and didn't say anything. No contact, no nothing for 4 months. His family wouldn't tell me anything. I found out he had been with 4 other women after he left. I just knew in my heart that it was time.

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I just knew I couldn't do it anymore.  He cheated on me more times than I can remember and he finally took it to far and cheated with my grandma's caregiver.  Grandma has Alzheimer's and lived with us.  I just couldn't take anymore.  Because of him I lost my grandma's in home health care.  Not only did he jeopardize me, he jeopardized my grandma.  He doesn't care about anybody but himself. It was time for me to get my self esteem back and learn to love myself again.

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While I dont wish him any ill will, I just knew I couldn't be with him anymore.  We actually get along very well after our divorce.

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