I'm I alone on this? Anyone else does it?

Question

So, every time I have a chance I check his phone, not everything and not everyday just once in a while I unlock it and just go through the last apps he opened you know?

Am I a bad wife? 
Am I paranoid?
Have any if you ever done smth like that?

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My fiancé and I look at each others phones whenever we like, if there's nothing to hide then there is no issue..

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No, I don't go through his phone or computer. Just like he doesn't go through mine. It's a trust issue. Not trying to sound like a bitch, but seriously, if you need to do that there is something deeper going on. If you don't trust him why are you with him?

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What's in the dark shall come to light...I trust my SO 100% so I don't go thru his phone. I wouldn't want him going thru mine and I don't have a thing to hide. It's just out of trust and respect for us.

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Me and my boyfriend have the open phone policy. If your husband doesn't jump out of his seat I you grab his phone in front of him, then you usually have nothing to worry about. Marriage means you share everything, so what's his is yours and yours his.

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Slightly insecure yes, a bad wife no. Everyone has that curious mind. If he leaves his phone out and available for you to look at I would take that as a reason you don't need to look, you won't be finding something bad if he is leaving his phone around.  If he grab his phone as soon as it went off, was super sneaky with it and never took it out of his pocket I would be looking

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I don't think it makes you a bad wife, but trust issues probably. You should talk with him. It may ease your mind a bit. My husband and I know each other's passwords to everything and even if I didn't there's no way he can keep me out of his electronics even if he wanted to (I'm fairly decent at hacking into them when needed) but I don't snoop neither does he. I trust him to be my husband and he trusts me. I would never ever break that trust. Now do I use his phone sometimes when he's there yeah. But he doesn't care because we know no ones doing anything.

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I never check his phone. Closest I come to that is if he needs me to reply to a text cuz he's driving, or he wants me to snap a picture with it.

And same with my phone.

But I have 100% trust and faith in him and he in me.

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I use to go thru my mans phone &let's jst say when you go looking for sh*t u find it. If ur nt ready for wt u may find then stay out his phone! Yes it's an invasion of privacy bt everyone gets curious every once in awhile so dnt let anyone else's opinion make you feel bad. Bt i will tell you to ask him wt he's doin on his phone &if he acts suspicious then do you.

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I do the same thing occasionally but I trust him so I don't do it all the time like he thinks I do.

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I could care less what is on my husband's phone..it never even occurs to me to pick it up and look through it.

I'm I alone on this? Anyone else does it?

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