we have been trying for almost 3 years

we have been trying for almost 3 years. I lost hope I don't know how many times, it is so frustrating that each month pass by and nothing happen, you see your nieces get pregnant or your friends but not you. I was with a dr that didn't seem to be really worry that I was trying for two years without any luck so I asked him and that is when he said that I need some test done, well his timing and my timing were not the same so I change doctors and with the new one in less that 3 weeks I had all my tests and my husband's test done. We were happy that everything came out good so the next step was clomid. I was with clomid for 6 months but didn't work for us. We decided to take a break it was already so overwhelming that we needed. surprise that month without doctors or any medicine worked......now we are expecting our first baby we are so excited. I didn't want to heat people saying you need to calm down it will work but when you are there nothing makes you calm down you want a baby and u want it now. It work for us I guess my lost of hope made me calm down.