This is my third baby and I am going to be induced soon, I'm technically full term so I can go at any moment and time. My oldest is 4 (girl) and middle is 2 (boy). This is going to be my second girl I have we are both young (him 24 and me 23) we agreed that we would like to try for another in the next 2-3 years for another son (even though it's 50/50). But I don't want another one right away because my first two my daughter was 9months when I found out I was having my son. I tried the mirena and I didn't have a great experience with it I had it removed after 2 months I am forgetful but right after I had my son I was on top of taking my pills for almost a year then kind of got lazy I believe and just didn't get pregnant until we actually tried again. Which is stupid for sure I know it, I was thinking about maybe the bar in my arm it lasts for 3 years but if we decided sooner I could have it removed and everything earlier. The depo shot I don't want to use that at all everyone around me has told me nothing but bad things about it (not the weight gain either, they had worse issues). What would you ladies suggest who are going on birth control right after your 6 week check up? I would really like to know.