TTC help!

My boyfriend and I have been TTC for about 5 months now, and we're hoping this coming month will be it, if not, I want to go into the OBGYN and see if they're is something we're not doing right. Has anyone had any problems like this? Thing is, also my OBGYN is a guy and I think I would just like a female that would understand he's been wanting a family and so would I. What have you done that's helped you succeed in your first BFP
Anything helps! (: